This quote suggests that both authors and lovers experience a kind of obsession or infatuation which can cloud their judgment or perception. For authors, this infatuation might be with their own work, ideas, or characters. They may become so engrossed in their creative process that they lose perspective on how others might perceive their work. Similarly, lovers may become so enamored with the object of their affection that they overlook flaws or red flags.
In both cases, the quote suggests that absence – stepping away from the work or person – can provide clarity and free one from this infatuation. This could mean taking a break from writing to gain fresh eyes on your work, spending time apart in a relationship to assess feelings objectively, or even ending an unhealthy romantic relationship.
Applying this idea to today’s world is particularly relevant given our fast-paced society where we’re constantly bombarded by information and stimuli. It’s easy to get caught up in our passions without taking time for reflection.
In personal development context too, it’s crucial to take breaks during learning processes for better absorption and understanding of knowledge. Similarly in relationships; it’s healthy to have personal space for self-growth which also contributes positively towards building stronger bonds.
Also with social media platforms becoming new publishing arenas for aspiring writers; it’s easy to get lost in instant gratification loop of likes & shares thus losing sight of genuine creativity & originality – making Johnson’s advice timeless & highly relevant even today: To step back occasionally for self-evaluation & introspection!
