There is no greater enemy to those who would please than expectation.
The quote, “There is no greater enemy to those who would please than expectation,” suggests that when we set out to please others, the expectations they have can become our biggest obstacle. This is because people tend to form preconceived ideas about how things should be or how others should act. When these expectations are not met, disappointment ensues, even if the actual outcome or behavior may be positive in its own right.
When it comes to pleasing others, there’s a delicate balance between meeting their expectations and staying true to oneself. If one constantly tries to meet the high standards and specific demands of others without considering their own needs or desires, they risk losing their authenticity and individuality.
Applying this idea in today’s world could mean acknowledging that we cannot control other people’s expectations of us. In personal development terms, it might involve focusing on self-improvement rather than trying excessively hard to meet external standards or ideals.
For example, consider a person who is starting a new job with an aim of impressing their employer. They work tirelessly but still receive criticism for not meeting certain targets or performing tasks in a particular way – according to the employer’s expectation. The person may feel disheartened despite putting forth so much effort. If instead they focus on improving skills necessary for the job and measure success based on personal growth rather than solely on external approval – they would likely experience less pressure and more satisfaction.
In relationships too – whether romantic partnerships or friendships – trying too hard just ‘to please’ can lead one into a trap of constantly chasing after someone else’s changing whims and desires at cost of one’s own happiness.
Therefore this quote serves as reminder that while it is important to take into account other people’s feelings and opinions; ultimately you must prioritize your own sense of self-worth over anyone else’s expectation.
