Friendship is a creature formed for a companionship not for a herd.
This quote, “Friendship is a creature formed for a companionship not for a herd.” emphasizes the inherent quality of friendship as an intimate bond between individuals rather than being part of a large group or collective. Essentially, it suggests that true friendship thrives on personal connection and mutual understanding that can only be achieved in close relationships rather than superficial associations with many people.
The term ‘creature’ used to describe friendship personifies the concept, implying that it has its own life and characteristics. It needs nurturing, care, and attention from both parties involved. Just like any living creature would struggle to thrive in unfavorable conditions (a herd), so does friendship when it lacks personal attention and is lost amidst numerous shallow relationships.
The phrase ‘formed for companionship’ underscores the purpose of friendships – they exist to provide emotional support, shared joys, mutual respect, understanding and growth. Friendships aren’t meant to be just another number in our social circle (‘herd’), but are unique bonds that enrich our lives.
Applying this idea in today’s world or personal development is more relevant now than ever due to the rise of social media platforms where people often mistake having hundreds or thousands of followers as having genuine friends. These platforms encourage us to join larger ‘herds’, thereby risking losing sight of authentic connections.
In terms of personal development too this idea holds great value. By focusing on building deeper connections with fewer people instead of spreading ourselves thin trying to fit into herds we don’t truly belong with or understand us at depth; we can improve our emotional well-being significantly. This allows us not just grow individually but also helps us learn from others’ experiences creating an environment conducive for mutual growth.
Therefore, while modern society may encourage vast networks (herds), Montaigne’s quote serves as a reminder about valuing quality over quantity when it comes down to forming meaningful friendships – ones formed for companionship rather than adding numbers into one’s social herd.
