This quote essentially captures the idea that chasing perfection, or ‘the absolute,’ often leads to an endless and inconclusive journey. In contrast, pursuing what is ‘approximate,’ or good enough, can lead to tangible outcomes and satisfaction. It suggests a pragmatic approach towards life where one strives for improvement rather than unattainable perfection.
In the context of personal development, this quote encourages us to be realistic with our goals. Perfection is a subjective concept that varies from person to person; what may seem perfect to one might not be so for another. Therefore, striving for it can lead us into an infinite loop of dissatisfaction and disappointment as we constantly find ourselves falling short of our idealized standards. On the other hand, aiming for what’s achievable (the approximate) allows us to make measurable progress and experience a sense of accomplishment.
In today’s world marked by social media-driven ideals of success and beauty, this message is particularly relevant. We are often bombarded with images of ‘perfect’ lives which can create unrealistic expectations in our minds about how we should look or live. This pursuit of the absolute can lead to anxiety, depression and even burnout because it sets up a standard that most people cannot meet.
Instead if we learn to appreciate the value in imperfections; understand that it’s okay not being flawless in every aspect; realise that making mistakes is part of growth process – then we would be able achieve more while also enjoying the journey towards self-improvement.
Moreover on a broader societal level too – if governments aim for perfect policies they may never implement anything due their fear failure but if they aim for good enough policies then they would at least start making progress towards improving their constituents’ lives.
Thus Cooley’s quote serves as reminder both on individual societal level about importance pragmatism over idealism – stressing on need appreciate ‘approximate’ instead getting lost pursuit ‘absolute’.
